aku adalah angin...

memang bukan easy task, living that kind of relationship every single day. it's much simpler to believe that u literally are single, alone in a world that pays no attention to the things u accomplish in it. tapi, regardless of what lies u tell urself to get thru the worst days, the truth is still that u have someone waiting for u. tiada pengesahan tentang hubungan kau dengannya jadi lebih mudah juga kalau meminjam facebook relationship status as ‘it's complicated’.


tapi, regardless of how hard it is to make a relationship work in life, the bottom line for love and relationships are that they are never complicated. they are always simple and straightforward. they always give its options and paths that u need to walk.


what's there to be complicated about love to begin with? u accept and embrace him for who he is, for better and for worse. u complement his actions, or at least work on complementing the facades in which he runs his daily lives with u. to which u should be able to find security and comfort in a relationship, ur fears and doubt washed away in the words and actions that he offers in ur weakest moments.


that's what relationships should be about. u don't have to wrack ur brains to figure out what's what. it's simple enuf to understand what exactly to do.


of course, samada kau sanggup to make those choices and some sacrifices, samada kau ada kekuatan to see thru the hardest of moments, atau samada kau sanggup to spend the rest of ur life with him who probably has the same kind of doubts and fears about the relationship as u do, all of it, is another story altogether. and in those hard choices to make in love, not everyone has the wisdom or experience to see it as it really is, let alone to see it until the end.


ultimately, love is a simple thing in life. u give and u take. u share and u embrace. u live with it and u live thru it. semudah itu. it has never been complicated and there’s a doubt it ever will. that at least is something to keep in mind thru the hardest parts of it all. u'll feel better about the choices u're about to make with ur own relationships and that's a whole lot better than the alternative.


u know it's true. hell u do.